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Read MoreAbuse is a common phenomenon. All abuse is about power and control. It can occur in any human relationship between two individuals who are close in a physical realm – spouses, siblings, parent and child, other family members, boss and reportee or with a co-worker.
Emotional abuse is dominating another person through emotions by manipulating, intimidating and isolating a victim so as to make them feel fear, less capable, induct self-blame and totally lose their own identity and self-worth. A lot of anguish is developed when you are being isolated, put down or controlled by someone you love, work with, or share any kind of personal relationship with.
Abuse is unhealthy and with time it completely diminishes the self-esteem of an individual making him/ her feel completely worthless and contemplating self- harm. The consequences are so immense that the damage can stay with the victim/survivor for years even if they are physically separated from the abuser.
While physical abuse i.e. afflicting harm physically by beating or damaging a person externally is apparent, emotional abuse is a silent killer in many cases and is a precursor to physical violence.
Many people fear confrontations and thereby allow abuse to continue. People with characteristics of being martyrs, caretakers, or pleasers are usually the ones who face this. While there are no physical scars, the hidden or the unseen ones inflict and bring upon extreme pain to the person living through it.
Victims of emotional abuse have a hard time going through their normal routines and eventually go through nervous breakdown. While the exact side effects may vary from person to person but certain impacts can include losing the confidence to participate in both social and professional activities, thinking too low of oneself and thereby not taking any care. Along with anxiety and constant sadness, one could experience sleep disturbances, obsessive thoughts, muscle tensions, gastrointestinal upset and in worse cases people can go to being totally numb, completely indifferent to life – simply ceasing to feel anything at all.
Everyone has a breaking point when it comes to dealing with emotional abuse. While some people seem to accept the situation and live in the misery, some others prefer to take action and end the relationship with the abuser once and for all.
As a victim of abuse, give yourself plenty of time to understand what happened and recount to yourself what you went through. Making a note of it will help you keep away from such people or situations in the future. Completely avoid contact with the abuser on all fronts and also remove any triggers that remind you of them. If it’s impossible to cut off ties entirely, limit your interactions to the bare minimum.
Every person’s healing journey is different but just remember that you can take back the power that you gave away and lead a fulfilling life as you take your life’s reins in your hands.
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